Who we are ?

My name is Pat Barber. I have been a father since 2012 and the transition from normal guy into fatherhood was not an easy one for me. Once I finally let go of who I was and embraced fatherhood fully (it took me till the 3rd child for that...) life has been remarkable. By no means is this journey easy but I am a strong believer in there being no better thing to do than raise a family and love your wife.

I live in Santa Cruz California with my 4 sons and my incredible wife. We have a 5 acre homestead and have no idea what we are doing. It's awesome.